
To Titus, my true child in a common faith: Grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior.” (Titus 1:4 (ESV)
I am grateful for my biological family. Growing up, I hold many precious memories of days gone by. I am blessed with a godly wife, two adult children, and their spouses, who love the Lord. The Lord has also blessed my family with several beloved grandchildren.
I am also grateful for my spiritual family. These are they who are my brothers, sisters and mentors who belong to the family of God by His sovereign grace alone, through God-given faith alone, in the person and work of Jesus Christ alone. They have been my counselors, co-laborers in ministry, and intercessors who have prayed for me through the years.
The Apostle Paul had many such individuals in his life. These were members of his spiritual family. It is likely Paul never married (I Cor. 7:7-8; 9:3-12). However, throughout his thirteen epistles he makes mention of many who formed his extended family in Christ. Titus was one such individual. Titus’ background was examined in the introductory essays of this series. Today’s text provides some personal remarks by the apostle concerning his young protégé.
Paul called Titus “my true child in a common faith.” The word “my” is inferred in the Greek text. True (γνησίῳ; gnesio) means genuine and real. Child (τέκνῳ; tekno) in this context refers to a dear individual, disciple and/or friend. Common (κοινὴν; koinen) means mutual or shared. Lastly, faith (πίστιν; pistin) refers to trust, commitment, dependence and worship. Titus was a genuine disciple and friend of the Apostle Paul. He shared with the apostle faith in the Lord Jesus Christ as Savior and sovereign God.
Paul extended his familiar greeting referring to grace and peace. Grace (χάρις; charis) means unmerited kindness or favor. Peace (εἰρήνη; eirene) refers to tranquility and freedom from worry. Grace and peace are from God the Father, the sovereign and immanent One. They are also from Christ Jesus our Savior from the penalty, power and eventual presence of sin. Grace is the basis of our peace with God (Rom. 5:1; Eph. 2:1-9).
Titus was the ostensible recipient of the letter even though this epistle, like 1 and 2 Timothy, was designed to be read widely. Titus was called my true son, indicating possibly that Paul was responsible for Titus’ conversion. The same phrase was also used of Timothy (1 Tim. 1:2). Or the term may denote a mentor-protégé relationship, or both concepts.[1]
“Note Paul’s identification of Titus as his “true child in a common faith” (Titus 1:4). Blood ties were important to Paul, but for him our true, eternal family in Christ supersedes mere physical relations,” states Dr. R. C. Sproul.
“The greeting grace and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Savior is typical (cf. 1 Tim. 1:2; 2 Tim. 1:2) except for the last term which was applied earlier (Titus 1:3) to God the Father. Paul used the term Savior in Titus’ letter interchangeably for the first two Members of the Godhead (cf. 2:10 and 13; 3:4 and 6).”[2]
Titus was Paul’s child because it was to the apostle as a means in God’s hand that he owed his spiritual life, though the time, place, and circumstances of his conversion have not been revealed (see p. 37). The designation child is a happy one, for it combines two ideas: “I have begotten you,” and “You are very dear to me.” Titus was, moreover, a genuine child, natural (not adopted), not a bastard son, not merely a nominal believer. Paul considers himself the father of Titus, not in the physical sense but “in terms of the common faith,” that is, with respect to the faith common to Paul and Titus. The phrase “in faith” (“my genuine child in faith”) in 1 Tim. 1:2 has virtually the same meaning. It is probably best to take faith, as here used, in the subjective sense, a true knowledge of God and of his promises revealed in the gospel and a hearty confidence in him and in his redemptive, Christ-centered love.[3]
“Scripture says in many places that our real family is formed not by blood ties but through faith in Christ (Mark 3:31–35). Ultimately, only our relationships with true believers will endure eternally, and so we must look to the church to be our family and allow ourselves to be family to other believers. Do you have close relationships with other believers in your congregation? Let us all do what we can to strengthen the bond of love with other Christians,” concludes Dr. Sproul.
May the Lord’s truth and grace be found here.
Soli deo Gloria!
[1] A. Duane Litfin, “Titus,” in The Bible Knowledge Commentary: An Exposition of the Scriptures, ed. J. F. Walvoord and R. B. Zuck, vol. 2 (Wheaton, IL: Victor Books, 1985), 762.
[2] Ibid.,762.
[3] William Hendriksen and Simon J. Kistemaker, Exposition of the Pastoral Epistles, vol. 4, New Testament Commentary (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1953–2001), 343.













