
4 “… and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, 5 to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.” (Titus 2:4-5 ESV)
The church is to be engaged in multi-generational life. While there may be particular emphasis placed on certain age group ministries in any given week, the church must not exclude any age group from any other. All generations in the church must be involved with each other. Examples include men and women’s ministries, AWANA, youth groups, Sunday school and Adult Bible Fellowships.
The Apostle Paul focused on healthy church behavior involving typical people groups in the church. He gave special attention to age and gender. We studied the importance of older men and women. Today, we examine the importance of younger women.
The phrase younger women refer to those who are under sixty years of age. Paul instructed Titus those in this category should fulfill their God-given expectations.
The older women would be humble advisors to the younger women. They are to train ((σωφρονίζωσι; sōphronizōsi) those who are younger. This means to give instruction in wise behavior and good judgment. What instruction is recommended?
First, young women are to love (φιλάνδρους; philandrous) their husbands and children. This is a kind and friendly love. It is a maternal love for one’s family.
Second, they are to be self-controlled (σώφρονας; sōphronas). This is also expected of older men (2:2). This means to be self-restrained and discreet.
Third, young women are to be pure (ἁγνάς; hagnas). This refers to moral and ethical behavior.
Fourth, they are to be workers at home (οἰκουρούς; oikourous). They are to be the guardians of the house ((Prov. 7:11; 31:10-31; 1 Tim. 5:13).
Fifth, young women are to be kind (ἀγαθάς; agathas) This means to be good and beneficent (Matt. 20:15; Rom. 5:7; 1 Peter 2:18). They are not to be rude, impolite and stingy, but thrifty as housewives.
Sixth, they are to be kind and submissive to their own husbands. This means to be responsible to and for their husbands welfare.
Seventh, all of these character traits are so the Word of God will not be reviled (βλασφημῆται blasphēmētai). The Gospel is to be preeminent in their lives.
“One understands immediately that no one—not even Titus—is better able to train a young woman than an experienced, older woman. Note the emphasis on love. The Christian young woman must be trained to love her husband and to love her children. Was it not love that saved her? See John 3:16. This love, coming from heaven, being shed abroad in the heart, must “flow out” toward others; and certainly, among those “others” a young woman’s own husband and her own children should occupy a very prominent place.” [1]
“This is the purpose of godly conduct—to eliminate any reproach on Scripture. For a person to be convinced God can save from sin, one needs to see someone who lives a holy life. When Christians claim to believe God’s word but do not obey it, the word is dishonored. Many have mocked God and his truth because of the sinful behavior of those who claim to be Christians (Matt. 5:16; 1 Peter 2:9),” explains Dr. John MacArthur.
“Wrong conduct on the part of the young married women would easily lead to slanderous remarks with respect to the gospel. Not only do the Greeks judge a doctrine by its practical effect upon everyday life (Chrysostom), but so does the world in general. If young mothers, professing to be Christians, should manifest lack of love for their husbands and for their children, lack of self-control, of purity, domesticity, kindness, and submissiveness, they would cause the message of salvation to be evil spoken of by outsiders. It must be borne in mind, moreover, that when Paul says “in order that the word of God may not be reviled,” he means, “in order that the word of God may be honored.”[2]
Pray not only that the older women in your church will help train the younger women, but also that the younger women would be receptive to such training. Have a blessed day in the Lord.
May the Lord’s truth and grace be found here.
Soli deo Gloria!
[1] William Hendriksen and Simon J. Kistemaker, Exposition of the Pastoral Epistles, vol. 4, New Testament Commentary (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1953–2001), 365.
[2] Ibid., 366.









