
7 “Command these things as well, so that they may be without reproach. “(1 Timothy 5:7 (ESV)
The Apostle Paul’s instructions to Timothy concerning the church’s treatment of true widows were not merely suggestions. They were, and remain, biblical commands. In fact, the word command (παράγγελλε; parangelee) is a present, active, imperative or command. It is an order. The command regarding ministry to true widows is as binding as any other commandment found in this particular epistle along with the rest of Scripture.
“Because the Christian community still struggles with sin, there will always be those who seek help from the church even if they are not truly in need. Paul would have known how carefully the synagogues of his day had to guard their community purse lest first-century swindlers take away resources from those who truly had nothing. This reality colors Paul’s outlook and helps to explain why he says some of the things that he does in 1 Timothy 5:3–16,” explains Dr. R. C. Sproul.
Dr. William Hendriksen writes, “Strikingly beautiful is what Scripture teaches with respect to widows:
(1) God is “a father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows” (Ps. 68:5).
They are under his special care and protection (Ex. 22:23; Deut. 10:18; Prov. 15:25; Ps. 146:9).
(2) By means of the tithe and “the forgotten sheaf” he provides for them (Deut. 14:29; 24:19–21; 26:12, 13). At the feasts which he has instituted, they too should rejoice (Deut. 16:11, 14).
(3) He blesses those who help and honor them (Is. 1:17, 18; Jer. 7:6; 22:3, 4).
(4) He rebukes and punishes those who hurt them (Ex. 22:22; Deut. 24:17; 27:19; Zech. 7:10; Job 24:3, 21; 31:16; Ps. 94:6; Mal. 3:5).
(5) They are the objects of Christ’s tender compassion, as is clear from the Gospels, especially from the Gospel according to Luke (Mark 12:42, 43; Luke 7:11–17; 18:3, 5; 20:47; 21:2, 3).
(6) In the early church they were not forgotten. It was the neglect of certain widows which led to the appointment of the first deacons, so that in the future widows might receive better care (Acts 6:1–6). And according to James, one of the manifestations of a religion that is pure and undefiled is this: “to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction” (James 1:27).[1]
Obeying the biblical guidelines the Apostle Paul previously set forth concerning widows (I Tim. 5:3-6), enables the church to also protect women who are not truly widows. These qualifications seek to keep unqualified women, and the church, from reproach. The word reproach (ἀνεπίλημπτοι; anepilemptoi) means to be above criticism.
“Timothy is to urge obedience not only to the things referred to in 1 Tim. 4:11 (“Command these things and teach them”) but also to the things which Paul has just now been saying. Surely, the most natural view is that the expression “these things” refers to the entire paragraph (verses 3–6). Timothy must see to it that the church honors really dependent and deserving widows (verses 3 and 5); that children and grandchildren do their duty to their parents (verse 4); and that everyone knows how to distinguish between the widow who should be honored and the widow who should not be honored (implied in verses 5 and 6).
If all the interested persons obey these commands, they will be above reproach both from the side of the world and from the side of the church.”[2]
Dr. Sproul concludes by writing, “One of the good and necessary consequences that we can draw from 1 Timothy 5:3–16 is that the church is not required to support financially those widows who are able for whatever reason to support themselves. However, the church is called to remember these women, especially if they have no relatives, and show them the love of Christ through friendship. Is there a lonely widow or widower in your church that you can visit this week?”
May the Lord’s truth and grace be found here. Have a blessed day in the Lord.
Soli deo Gloria!
[1] William Hendriksen and Simon J. Kistemaker, Exposition of the Pastoral Epistles, vol. 4, New Testament Commentary (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1953–2001), 167–168.
[2] Ibid., 170.












